What happened to our love?

What happened to our love? He tells me he wants to end things with me so he can be with someone else! What do I think and what do I do? Please assist me in sorting this out....

What happened to our love?

My life is in shambles. I'm curious, where did our love go? My boyfriend and I had been together for more than three years when suddenly, Where did our love go? Suddenly, he tells me that he no longer loves me and wishes to end our relationship. He met another woman and told her he loves her and wants to be with her and that he can't keep sneaking around. He believes that lying to me in order to see her is wrong. He is correct. It is incorrect. But here's the thing. How long did he skulk around? I inquired, and he replied, "six months."

How could he possibly have lied to me for six months? 

One of the things that bothers me about this is that he believes it is critical to be with her and not disappoint her, but it is acceptable to disappoint me. He can hurt me, but he can't hurt her, as if her feelings are far more important than mine.  I discovered she works in a shop; she is nothing special, quite fat, definitely overweight, and definitely plain, yet she is desperate to be with me more and is unconcerned about losing me when I am nice and slim and gorgeous in comparison to her. What does she have that I don't? What does she have to offer him that I don't? Is it intelligence? 

I don't think so if she works in a shop; it's just a regular job done by regular people. A brain box would not accept a job in a shop. And a relationship is more than just looks and brains. Was it because the novelty wore off? 

Was it because he had become stale and needed someone new, anyone, as long as they were new?

Or on the other hand was it about him being anxious to have a test? Does he consider me to be too unsurprising, a push over now, and she is somebody he needs to contend to get? A few men are this way. They go for somebody in the event that they are more troublesome and less available, assuming there are issues. Maybe she is hitched or had a sweetheart and that caused the test he wanted?

Kindly enlighten me your thought process concerning all of this? You can arrive at this site to tell me at ask distress auntie counsel on the web. You can get very generously compensated for your recommendation there. If you have any desire to examine relationship issues you can do that there as well, and get free guidance from numerous others there about your concerns. You can go to a mystic for these things, that frequently helps, attempt reasonable mystic email readings or web clairvoyant visionary. Fortunately there are many spots one can go to when in an emergency about a relationship, stressed over something or pushed beyond your limits. You want to see that before you feel more terrible. Where did our adoration go?